Charles Darwin told us many many years ago that its the Survival of the fittest. Yes it surely is.
But in the fashion world, its primarily survival of the prettiest.
Let me clarify, from the title of the post you would think i am in a boy bashing mode, but truthfully no. I am just going to state some facts.
I want to highlight a very significant point here, i have seen people not from the industry trying extremely hard to look good. I think its a very healthy habit. I think some of us really should take this up seriously.
When a woman wants to look good, she has this peculiar habit to hide her insecurities. And this exists in all women, and i find this trait rather interesting. I try and observe what the woman must try and hide through her clothing. Fashion teaches us basics of how to adorn your body and look appealing. It isn't about looking like a rainbow in a Princess bubblegum dress. Either ways, they find their way out.
Men, on the other hand, have stranger habits. They have this knack about themselves to not portray a not-concerned-about-clothing image. The cutest habit in some men is to just go with the damn flow and let their girlfriends decide their clothes. Women love that, they might hissle and jizzle about it, but trust me they do. Then there is a category of men who enjoy dressing themselves like Godfathers. No. I am serious. You guys don't realize that 21 year old guy who is wearing a vintage trench wants to be taken bloody seriously. Expression.
There is this last category of men, which is my personal favorite. They are the exotic breed. The ugly ones.
I know, I know. Before we reach multiple notions, let me explain.
You see, the ugly guys are the ones you'd see who won't give a shit. Literally. I don't say they would dress like a raccoon, but they are the ones who'd prolly not care if you have a bulge here and there.
Surprisingly they are also the ones with most self confidence. And how? Ever seen a situation where there is a gathering, you'd see a man standing effortlessly and unnerved by the constant bickering he sees around him and his priorities clear. Most of us call them the shy lot. For me, they reflect self confidence and self comfort.
Not only would he turn out to be the coolest company you'd ever have, he'd also be the one who would understand your deepest shittiest secrets with a flare.
An ugly man would never try and storm in a party or wear something that requires one to put his shades back on. He would make an entrance and lie low.
I want to know which woman does not get turned on by these qualities.
We are designed to notice visually appealing things. We have to design ourselves to notice the very truth we see.
Some ugly men are also the funniest. Because they have that ability to laugh at themselves. Try and tell a well dressed man what happened at your grandma's dinner when you turned up in a bunny costume and watch that color drain off your face as he walks out.
I can list about hundred such instances. Don't get me wrong, a hot guy is always a better eye candy. But there are some nice guys we women tend to overlook and i think these guys deserve the attention they don't even ask for.
Remember, if a guy is ugly, he might just be a really nice guy.
For the second time, dear men, your welcome.